Learn to Hypnotize People--Which Program?

You can learn a lot about self-hypnosis and how to hypnotize others just by reading tons of free information online. There may be valuable information in your library, but a lot of that's bound to be outdated, at least if your local library is anything like mine.

There are tons of self-study hypnosis programs out there, ranging from $40 or $50 to hundreds--even on that's a few thousand dollars for in-person classes.

Chances are, you don't want to have to go take classes somewhere miles away. My God, I couldn't even fit something like that in without giving up someting awfully important--maybe sleep?

So studying on your own is probably the best choice. How do you choose from among them? In my first post I listed a few good programs, but I'm going to go in depth on one of them. I think it's one thing to talk about mind control in the context of persuasion. It's entirely another to go all dark and deep about it. I know that's enticing and it gets people's attention, so it's a commonly used tactic especially when it comes to hypnosis topics. I'm not fond of it, personally.

You may feel differently, and if so you 'll find the link in my first post. Be warned, though. It's really not for everyone. Great, GREAT tips and techniques--but nothing earth-shattering enough to warrant the rest. However, if you like that sort of cloak and shadow tone of Black Ops hypnosis, then the Underground Hypnosis course on learning how to hypnotize people may speak to you in a way that you can really understand and make it enjoyable. If not, you can get your money back.

The program that runs on the other side of the spectrum from the dark and mysterious secrets of mind control (can't you just hear the music?) teaches you to become an expert "persuader." The package that teaches you to be an expert persuader in 20 days or less . . . this is what learning hypnosis can do for you. Click that link to see the presentation page.

You won't find stage hypnosis techniques, but how to get your way in everyday situations. You'll learn how to persuade those around you so that you can achieve more happiness. The tips and techniques in the course will have you quickly becoming able to exert influence over people and when you can influence people, you can change whole situations. It also has a money back guarantee so you have nothing to lose.

Learn to Hypnotize People, or Yourself?

Maybe you do want to learn to hypnotize people to influence your friends and family to see things your way occasionally, or allow you to do more things you enjoy.

Maybe you want to learn to hypnotize people just for fun. There's still a big appeal for party hypnosis, where someone volunteers let you try to hypnotize them, with each of them all the while pretending quite a bravado as if there's just NO way you're going to make him squack like a chicken, or make her sing "Endless Love" in front of a group of people.

This can be a lot of fun as long as you don't abuse the power you have when you do get a subject who's very susceptible to suggestion.

But another great way to use the information you get here is through self hypnosis. You can use the power of affirmation and self-persuasion to change your life for the better. Many people use this skill to help themselves lose weight, quit smoking, cut back on the coffee, be more patient, exercise more often, be more assertive, and for many other things.

You can learn to hypnotize yourself to give yourself more confidence and self-esteem, to let yourself sleep better, stop worrying so much, overcome anxiety and panic attacks, become a better salesperson, become more compassionate . . . the applications are endless.

The first step in learning to hypnotize people, whether you're doing it covertly or in front of a crowd, is to get the person relaxed. They might not know you're relaxing them if you're using conversational hypnosis where you simply listen to them and gain their confidence, getting them to relax around you, but you know.

So get in a comfrotable position, and start to relax yourself. It's not quite as easy as telling yourself, "You're relaxing now . . .now you're relaxing . . . " as a stage hypnotist might. Instead, close your eyes and concentrate on the top of your head. Really feel the top of your head and now focus on relaxing it. Imagine that you can feel a breeze against it, or a slightly tingling as if it might be about to go to sleep.

When you can imagine this well, move down yoru head on all sides. Feel that buffeting breeze and tingling trickling down your forehead, the back of your head, over the tips of your ears. Feel the relaxation spreading its way down from the top of your head. Now it's important to picture it as a pleasant sensation, otherwise by the time it gets past your nose and mouth you might feel like you're suffocating if you have an excellent capabilty for imagery. Don't picture is as molasses, for gosh sake!

Try a clear, sparkling force field that's as soothing as water but that you can breathe through as easily as air. It massages you and relaxes you as it spreads down your shoulders, arms, torso . . . you get the idea. Finally, the last thing you'll imagine is this warm and comforting relaxation covering your toes.

I should point out--the first few times you try this you might fall asleep, so be sure you're somewhere you can sleep or you have some way of waking up if you need to. Doing it at bedtime would be ideal, just in case!

Now you're in a relaxed state and your mind is susceptible to suggestion, even from you. You could have a CD or MP3 of affirmations ready to play now, even one you recorded yourself, if you feel strange talking to yourself. But it's best if you simply say the things you want to influence yourself. Stick to one subject per session and use several affirmations all centered on the same idea. For instance:

I am healthy person who loses weight easily. I enjoy fruits and vegetables. I don't overeat and stop eating before I'm full . . . .(And any number of other affirmations on the same topic)

I am confident and I don't allow coworkers to take advantage of me . . .

I express myself easily and confidently . . .

I speak in front of a group with authority and ease . . .

I don't crave cigarettes sugar carboyhydrates bread chocolate . . .you name it!

I fall asleep easily and sleep well throughout the night . . .

Whatever it is you want to reprogram your brain to allow you to do, tell yourself you ALREADY DO IT.

You might not see results the very next day--that's an unrealistic expectation. But if you stick with it, make it your bedtime routine or and do it faithfully, you will see a difference in a pretty short amount of time. Sometimes it starts working in only a few days, sometimes it takes longer. A lot has to do with how long you've been telling yourself other things like:

I'll never lose weight, I'm hopeless, I can't stop eating . . .

I can't standup to him, I can't handle confrontation, I'm afraid I'll get in trouble . . .

I can't live without cigarettes, I'm so addicted, I have to have one . . .

I'll embarrass myself if I give a speech, I'll look stupid, I'll stammer . . .

Remember, you're undoing years of negative talk. Give it time. Learning to hypnotize yourself is probably one of the most rewarding side-effects when you start studying to learn to hypnotize people.